Litany of Mary of Nazareth

If you’re suffering from injustice ennui, sitting in prayer with this litany from Pax Christi USA might be the renewal your soul needs.

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Glory to you, God our Creator,
Breathe into us new life, new meaning.
Glory to you, God our Savior,
Lead us into the way of peace and justice.
Glory to you, healing Spirit,
Transform us to empower others.

Mary, wellspring of peace,
be our guide.
Model of strength,
be our guide.
Model of gentleness,
be our guide.
Model of trust,
be our guide.
Model of patience,
be our guide.
Model of courage,
be our guide.
Model of risk,
be our guide.
Model of openness,
be our guide.
Model of perseverance,
be our guide.

Oppressed woman,
lead us to life.
Liberator of the oppressed,
lead us to life.
Marginalized woman,
lead us to life.
Comforter of the afflicted,
lead us to life.
Cause of our joy,
lead us to life.
Sign of contradiction,
lead us to life.
Breaker of bondage,
lead us to life.
Political refugee,
lead us to life.

Mother of the liberator,
pray for us.
Mother of the homeless,
pray for us.
Mother of the dying,
pray for us.
Mother of the nonviolent,
pray for us.
Widowed mother,
pray for us.
Unwed mother,
pray for us.
Mother of a political prisoner,
pray for us.
Mother of the condemned,
pray for us.
Mother of the executed criminal,
pray for us.

Woman of mercy,
empower us.
Woman of faith,
empower us.
Woman of contemplation,
empower us.
Woman of vision,
empower us.
Woman of wisdom and understanding,
empower us.
Woman of grace and truth,
empower us.
Woman, pregnant with hope,
empower us.
Woman, centered in God,
empower us.
Seeker of sanctuary,
empower us.
First disciple,
empower us.
Sharer in Christ’s ministry,
empower us.
Participant in Christ’s passion,
empower us.
Seeker of God’s will,
empower us.
Witness of Christ’s resurrection. . .
Empower us.

Mary, Queen of Peace, we entrust our lives to you. Shelter us from war, hatred and oppression. Teach us to live in peace, to educate ourselves for peace. Inspire us to act justly, to reverence all God has made. Root peace firmly in our hearts and in our world.



Photo by Henri Meilhac on Unsplash


Incomplete Guide To Not Sucking As A White Ally

This is a brief, white woman’s guide to not sucking as an ally by a white woman who frequently sucks at being an ally. So, let’s start with a cautionary tale, inspired by my most recent fork-up.

Despite growing up in Texas, where football is the 8th sacrament, I have never really been a fan. But I love a good Super Bowl party like the rest of the country, mostly because I appreciate any opportunity to eat my weight in appetizers.

This year was no different. I was on call at work, so delicious appetizers were replaced by Cool Ranch Doritos that I scored from the vending machine after scrounging up 80 cents from my flight bag. But I sat around the break room TV with a handful of coworkers talking shit about the Patriots.

When the 84 Lumber Company ad came on, I was floored even before I saw the ending. As soon as their website came back online, I watched the entire ad and wept big, fat, white woman tears when the daughter pulled the American flag made of scraps out of her backpack. I shared it on my personal Facebook page, and here on CWR.

I read that the owner voted for Trump. My first thought was, “Wow, this is the kind of empathy and sensitivity that I never see displayed from Trump voters. If they’re willing to admit that the way Dear Leader approaches immigration isn’t okay, that’s ground we have to build on!”

(I know.)

I went to sleep that night still thinking about the ad. But the more I thought about it, the more uneasy I became. I woke up with the “Welp. I’ve stepped in it this time,” feeling that you quickly become familiar with after deciding to regularly confront your privilege.

If I had paused for a few hours and thought critically about why the ad drew such a strong reaction from me and examined the motivation, and if I had had *shut up and listened* instead of feeling first, reacting second, thinking third, I would have been able to learn something about myself. And that means I would have been better equipped to dismantle the pieces of the “America As A Vaguely Mcconaughey-esque White Savior” narrative that I came across.

The ad is a fantastic example of what advertising is supposed to do – evoke an emotional response in the viewer that draws him or her to the product in question. They aren’t interested in humanizing the plight of immigrants, they’re selling emotional stock in a lumber company with declining employee retention. I was so swept away by the evocative cinematography and the narrative of the mother and her daughter that I ignored the fact that the commercial was a GIANT ADVERTISEMENT FOR THE WALL, with a white man building a pretty door that the chosen few could enter through.

Instead, I shouted my love for the ad from the virtual rooftops during the same week that my neatly-organized editorial calendar called for this blog post. So. Hooray, self. Gold stars all around. It was a good reminder to not get complacent in my role as an ally, and to take stock of the some of the lessons I’ve gleaned along the way. So in that spirit, here are some things I’ve learned by doing the exact opposite and falling on my face:

  1. It Isn’t About Me And My Feelings.
    I am a white woman married to a Black man. I have experienced some uncomfortable situations and comments as a result of that, but that is not racism and is nothing like the systemic racism he has experienced his entire life. If he dies tomorrow (God forbid), I am just another middle class, college-educated, able-bodied white lady. I could technically walk away from this marriage and never come in close contact with the struggle of Black Americans again. He can’t leave his skin behind. I can’t center my fight against racism on myself or what it means for MY experience. Black lives matter because Black lives matter, not because I’m married to a Black life that matters to me.
  1. If I Have Feelings, Examine Why.
    If something makes me angry, if something makes me sad, if something feels unjust or unfair or wrong, I need to take a step back and ask myself, why? Am I being defensive because my privilege is being challenged (spoiler alert, probably yes)? Am I about to speak over minority voices? Is this making me feel good because it uplifts the role of white men or women fighting an injustice and not amplifying the injustice itself?
  1. Shut Up And Listen.
    I’m going to disagree with my friends and family, and that’s okay. But if my friends and family who are people of color are saying one thing, and I’m vehemently disagreeing and saying another, that’s a big ‘ol clue to shut up and listen. You know that thing dudes do when you’re discussing something like periods or childbirth or the gender wage gap or the weather or whether or not Westbrook is going to stay with the OKC Thunder or literally anything else white men might possibly have opinions about? I do it, too. It sucks.
  2. Keep Going.
    “I don’t talk about race because I’m afraid of saying the wrong thing.” I hear it so many times. Hell, I’ve said it so many times. Can I let you in on a secret? You’re going to screw it up. You’re going to say the wrong thing, you’re going to hurt someone you love, you’re going to have to go to them and say “Hey. That thing I said yesterday was inexcusable, and I’m sorry.” And you’re going to have to prove that you mean it. But even worse than speaking up and saying the wrong thing is staying silent in the face of racism. Hint: that goes for social media, too.

It is nobody’s job but our own to teach ourselves how to navigate this life, but hopefully you can learn from some of my mistakes. God knows I’ve made enough for all of us.

Hi from our founder.

There’s no way to make that sound less douchey, people. I’m sorry.

I’m Kassie, and I’m the founder of Catholic Women’s Resistance. You can read a little more about me here. CWR has only been unleashed into the world for 48 hours, but it’s been stirring in my bones for a lot longer than that.

We touched on this in We’re In This Together, but I wanted to personally extend a welcome to you. If you’re here and following along on Twitter or Facebook, it’s likely you feel similarly to me. Our current political environment has left you checking the expiration date of your passport and wondering if this is going to be the end of the American experiment. You have felt more than ever that you are #CatholicFirst rather than bound to any party. You can’t in good conscience continue ignoring what’s happening in the world. You’re tired of platitudes and feeling impotent in the face of sorrow and injustice, but also confused about what you can actually do to change anything.

And if we’re going to get real here, you’re probably tired of being nice-nice. You know what I mean. The second you trade your funny coffee shop story or cute kid quote of the day for an explanation of why you support #BlackLivesMatter or why P45 will set back the pro-life movement for a generation people are coming for you faster than you can say “Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship.”

That feeling sucks. There’s no getting around it. We objectively know that loving the people in front of us is the best way to change our daily life, but there has to be more we can do than simply not flipping off the guy who cut us off on the highway. I mean, that’s probably a good place to start, tbh.

I don’t have answers. I’m just a girl, standing in front of our democracy on fire, asking sweet baby Jesus to reconsider his eschatology and come rapture us all. But I’m also a fiercely Catholic woman who believes in the power of women standing together and taking action. This is not the time to argue about leggings and chapel veils, Marty Haugen vs. Gregorian chant. This a time for us to center on what our Faith asks of us daily, and commit to that.

If you’re new to civic action and don’t know where to start, take a deep breath. We’ve all been in your shoes, and it can be a scary place to be. Check out this overview of Catholic Social Teaching from the USCCB, pick an area that speaks to you, and dig in. If you need help finding a Catholic organization in your area working towards a cause that matters to you, send us a Facebook message or a Twitter DM or post in the Facebook group that’s coming soon.

If something in you sparks as you read these words, reach out to me. Follow us on Facebook or Twitter. Let us know what’s going on in your community and how we can support each other. And stay tuned, because we’re just getting started.


Kassie Rutherford Iwinski



We’re In This Together.

Let’s be real, friends. It was a terrible election cycle, and it’s only grown worse since November. For those of us who strive to put our Catholic faith above our American politics we are being challenged in new ways every day.

Something dark is brewing in our world. We may disagree on specific policies to combat that darkness, but the one thing we are united in is the call to hope, prayer, and action.

So what is the resistance?

We’re a group of Catholic women concerned about the growing rise of hate and injustice in the world at large, but specifically in the American political arena. We opposed our current president during his campaign and have continued that opposition after his election. He does not speak for us or the causes we hold dear to our hearts.

Some of us lean left, some of us lean right, all of us aim to emulate the words of the prophet Isaiah:

  “learn to do good;
seek justice,
    rescue the oppressed,
defend the orphan,
    plead for the widow.”
–Isaiah 1:17


But despite our #NeverTr*mp status, the reality is he’s here, and he isn’t going anywhere anytime soon.

So we fight.

We pray.

We act.

We share resources and support each other as we stand up for the lives of innocents, immigrants, the marginalized, and the oppressed. We refuse to normalize hatred, and we refuse to sit back and let Nice Catholic Lady Syndrome keep us from standing beside our brothers and sisters whose lives are at stake.

So join us on Facebook and Twitter as we share resources and action items, join together in prayer, and use our privilege to amplify the voices being drowned out in our world.